8 REGULI DE CONDUITA PE RETELELE DE SOCIALIZARE #rulesofsocialmedia

8 REGULI DE CONDUITA PE RETELELE DE SOCIALIZARE #rulesofsocialmedia

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SOCIAL MEDIA! Ce mai e de spus despre retelele de socializare, decat faptul ca… sunt pentru socializare! Dar.. cum, cand, unde, de ce, cu cine, cu ce, cui, ce anume? Si lista poate continua! Iata cele cateva reguli de conduita pe care le-am gandit eu, pentru a fi “friendly” but not “too friendly” in mediul online:

#1. NU TE IMPLICA IN DISCUTII CONTRADICTORII!

Este foarte ok sa iti impartasesti gandurile, opiniile despre un anumit subiect, insa, incearca pe cat posibil sa le eviti pe cele care genereaza un ping pong de opinii diferite, care mai de care mai justificate! Aici ma refer la subiectele controversate precum religia, rasa si politica! Daca tu consideri ca parerea ta are potentialul de a ofensa pe cineva, cea mai inteleapta alegere este sa nu o postezi pe tot internetul! O poti discuta fata in fata, printr-un mesaj in privat sau o poti abandona! Crede-ma! S-au stricat prietenii din cauza asta!

#2. CREEAZA LIMITE!

Cunoaste limita dintre viata personala si viata profesionala si creeaza profiluri separate! Astfel, daca detii o afacere sau esti freelancer, poti crea o pagina separata care sa iti reprezinte munca, pe care poti posta si purta discutii relevante pentru activitatea si clientii tai. Daca le imbini pe cele doua, risti ca prietenii tai sa iti dea unfriend, nu din rea vointa, ci din cauza faptului ca esti prea sacaitor cu promovarea afacerii tale in care poate ei nu se regasesc.

#3. CE TIE NU ITI PLACE ALTUIA NU-I FACE!

Asta e o regula general valabila, atat online, cat si offline! Intotdeauna vor exista persoane care sa te provoace, insa tu trebuie sa te ridici deasupra lor si sa dai dovada de o conduita adecvata, chiar si online. Asadar, nu raspunde cu aceeasi moneda, daca e moneda care nu te caracterizeaza, indiferent de cat de tentat ai fi!

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#4. NU POSTA NIMIC ILEGAL!

Vrei sa iti sabotezi cariera si reputatia? Posteaza ceva ilegal, ofensator sau violent! Chiar si glumele care fac referire la o activitate ilegala se pun! Oricat de distractiv este, pastreaza tot ce te poate incrimina in intimitatea grupului tau de prieteni, pentru amuzamentul vostru via WhatsApp, Viber, Skype s.a.

#5. NU VORBI DESPRE LOCUL DE MUNCA!

Un lucru destul de comun este sa impartasesti propriile ganduri in timp ce esti la birou. NU NU NU! Te-ar putea vedea chiar seful (care si-a facut un profil incognito), vreunul din colegi sau vreun colaborator. Dupa cum bine stii, firmele si-au facut un obicei sa recruteze tocmai prin intermediul acestor platforme. Ei au obiectivul sa descopere persoana din spatele CV-ului (destul de periat pe care l-ai postat pe ejobs, bestjobs, olx si alte cate si mai cate). Chiar daca nu doresti sa te angajezi undeva sau sa fii cautat de vreun angajator, sunt headhunteri care cauta in mod constant talente neslefuite pentru joburi mai bune. Asadar, incearca sa iti mentii imaginea virtuala pozitiva si placuta, intrucat nu doresti sa ratezi sansa unei cariere de succes, nu?

#6. SPUNE STOP ABORDARILOR AGRESIVE!

LinkedIn si Twitter sunt uneltele preferate networking-ului cu alti profesionisti din domeniu. Totusi, exista o diferenta uriasa intre networking si hartuire. Daca trimiti zeci de mesaje sau scrisori de intentie potentialilor angajatori, nu vei reusi sa obtii job-ul dorit, ba mai mult ii vei indeparta! Chiar daca tu esti un potential angajat bun, trebuie sa acorzi un spatiu, altfel atitudinea ta va fi perceputa a fi lipsa de profesionalism! Foloseste social media pentru a cauta sfaturi si a initia conexiuni placute, nu pentru a implora angajatorii pentru un job!

#7. ALEGE-TI CU MARE GRIJA PRIETENII!

Ai mare grija cu cine interactionezi pe internet! Regula de baza este sa nu accepti si nici sa trimiti cereri de prietenie oricui, oricand! Obiectivul tau este sa ai cat mai multi prieteni, astfel vei acumula mai multe informatii/noutati despre ei si preferintele lor. Insa, ai sa ai parte de suprize chiar din partea persoanelor la care nu te asteptai: sa posteze lucruri indecente sau inadecvate. Nu uita un lucru: nu esti singura care le vede!

#8. TEMPEREAZA POSTAREA PREA MULTOR ASPECTE DIN VIATA PERSONALA!

Nu posta nimic daca te simti: suparat, trist, dezamagit de cineva/ceva, obosit sau dupa ce ai baut cam multe pahare de vin! Sigur vei posta niste lucruri pe care le vei regreta ulterior; cu totii stim hashtag-ul #AboutLastNight. Nu este nimic in neregula cu o poza din club cu prietenele tale (si eu am postat, postez si voi posta), insa, trebuie sa recunosti ca s-ar putea intoarce impotriva ta. Posteaz-o daca stii ca e decenta, nu invers! De asemenea, daca esti prea “fericit” si postarile tale sunt prea “fericite”, persoanele se vor plictisi de prea multa “fericire” si iti vor da unfollow. DA! #truestory

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APROPO, V-ATI GANDIT VREODATA CAM CUM AR ARATA RETELELE DE SOCIALIZARE DACA AR FI BARBATI? IATA AICI! EU M-AM AMUZAT TERIBIL!

SOCIAL MEDIA! What’s there to say about social media, except… they are meant for socializing! But.. how, when, where, why, with whom, with what, whom, what purpose? And the list can go on! Here are some basic rules that I could think of, in order to be “friendly” but not “too friendly” in online:

#1. STAY OUT OF COTRADICTORY DISCUSSIONS!

It’s ok to share your thoughts about a certain subject, but try to avoid those who generate follow up Q&A, justified or not! I am talking about topics like religion, race and politics! If you consider that your opinion could be offensive to someone, the wise choice would be not to post it all over the internet! You can discuss it face to face, in a private message or you can just leave it as it is! Trust me! Friendships were ruined because of it!

#2. CREATE BOUNDARIES!

Be sure you know the limit between your personal life and your professional one and lead them separately! So, if you own a business or you are a freelancer, you can just create a separate page to represent your work, where you can even connect with your clients about your products/services. If you combine them both, you rick to lose some of your friends because of the fact that you might be nagging with promoting your business.

#3. DO NOT DO IT TO OTHERS IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT FOR YOURSELF!

That’s a classic one, online and offline! There always will be someone out there to challenge you, but you just have to be intelligent and have proper behavior, even online. Therefore, don’t respond in the same manner as they did, no matter how tempted you may be, because you know that it doesn’t suit you!

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#4. DO NOT SHARE OR POST ANYTHING ILLEGAL!

Do you want to sabbotage your entire career and reputation? just post something illegal, offending or violent! Even a harmless joke that refers to something illegal, counts! As fun as you might consider it, keep it between your friends for your own amusement via WhatsApp, Viber, Skype s.a.

#5. DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR WORKPLACE!

People always forget that they are not supposed to share thoughts of their workplace, especially while they are on their workplace! NO NO NO! Your boss might see you (under an incognito profile name), or one of your co-workers or even a client. As you know, many employers seek future employees on these social media platforms. They have the purpose to discover the person behind the resume (the one you already posted on ejobs, bestjobs, olx and others). Even if you don’t seek a job, you might become interesting for a specific employer or headhunter that seek constantly new talents for better jobs. Therefore, try to mentain a positive image in the digital world, because you don’t want to ruin the chance of a successful career, right?

#6. STOP THE AGGRESSIVE APPROACHES!

LinkedIn and Twitter are the main tools for the professional people. Anyway, there is a huge difference between networking and harassment. If you send tons of messages and cover letters to possible employers, you won’t get any job interviews and you will further them more! Even if you are a good potential employee, you have to give them space, or you will be perceived as a lack of professionalism! Use social media to seek career advices and initate good connections, not to beg the employers for a job!

#7. CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS CAREFULLY!

Have a good look at the poeple you interract with! The main rule is not to accept or send friend requests to everyone, everywhere! Prepare to be amazed with the people at least espected to post innapropriate things. Do not forget one thing: you are not the only one who sees them!

#8. CONTROL THE POSTS ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE!

Do not post a thing if you feel: sad, dissapointed by someone/something, tired or after a wild night with lots of wine. You will share things that are regretable later on; we all remember the hashtag #AboutLastNight. It’s perfectly fine to post a picture with your friends while clubbing (been there, done that, will do it again), but you have to admit that it will turn against you. Post it only if it’s decent, not the other way around! Also, if you are “happy” and your posts are “too happy”, people will get bored of “too much happiness” and will unfollow you. YES! #truestory

BY THE WAY, HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT HOW SOCIAL MEDIA WOULD LOOK IF IT WOULD BE REPRESENTED BY MEN? HERE IT IS! I WAS TERRRIBLY AMUSED BY IT!

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